Kink va fetish: noi ve chung nhu nguoi lon

Day la mot thong ke co the lam ban nhe nhom: trong cac khao sat lon, da so nguoi lon cho biet ho co it nhat mot dieu kich thich khong theo khuon mau. Co mot "gu rieng" khong phai ngoai le — gia vo khong ai co moi la ngoai le.

Noi ve dieu cua ban

• Thoi diem: sau khi co tin cay, truoc khi co ky vong. Khong phai tin nhan thu ba, cung khong phai sau nhieu thang che giau. Khi cuoc chat da thoai mai va thanh that — do la khung cua.
• Dat no nhu mot loi moi, khong phai loi thu toi. "Minh thuc su thich X — do co phai dieu ban co the thay vui khong?" Khong xin loi, khong mo dau run ray. Su xau ho lay lan; su binh tinh cung vay.
• Di tu tu. Goi ten phien ban nhe truoc. Neu phan hoi co ve to mo, se co cho de noi them.

Nghe dieu cua nguoi khac

Ban dang giu su de bi ton thuong cua ho. Ngay ca khi no hoan toan khong phai gu cua ban, cau tra loi tu te co hai phan: ton trong, roi thanh that. "Khong hop voi minh — nhung minh vui vi ban da noi" giu lai niem tin hai nguoi da xay trong nhieu tuan.

Hai ranh gioi ro rang

Tat ca nhung dieu tren chi ap dung cho nguoi lon dong thuan. Bat cu dieu gi lien quan den nguoi khong the hoac khong he dong thuan khong phai kink, ma la toi pham — va ep ai do theo so thich cua ban chi la quay roi doi trang phuc.

Ngoai hai ranh gioi do? Ban duoc phep muon dieu minh muon. Hay noi nhu no la binh thuong — vi no binh thuong.